Gay Hookup Safety: Guarding Privacy Online

Don’t Rush Into Things Don’t be in such a hurry to jump into bed with “HotHungMuscle” that you overlook obvious or subtle red flags about that person, the situation you’re…

Getting back to the gym starts with the first visit

Making the first step back into the gym after falling off the routine is hard. The mindset of getting it back, being all-in and being “where I was” again was…

No more excuses to not PrEP and DoxyPEP

The barriers for a gay man accessing preventative medications like PrEP and DoxyPEP have been falling like dominoes. For most people with insurance it’s now free and even without it…

Being a pig and the dreaded UTI

I was standing at work early on a Thursday morning when I first felt the itch. Before lunch I was running to the bathroom every few minutes with a strong…

How I lost 135 pounds and keep it off

Most people who know me today are shocked to hear that much of my teenage and adult life I weighed over 300 pounds. I never exercised or gave any thought…